For the last several years, I have been repeatedly getting myself into what I call as the ‘Shallow Wells Situation’. This term originates from a story I had read about how a man wanted to dig a well to obtain water. Instead of digging one deep well where he would have likely struck water, he spends his efforts digging multiple shallow wells without encountering any water. And in the end, even though he has spent a lot of time and resources, he has nothing to show.
As far as my own hobbies go, this has manifested most evidently in my (lack of) writing production on this blog and my primary one. It has also taken a foothold in my plans to pursue a whole bunch of other hobbies which would require my creative energy or just the focus to learn something new. My default plan was to chip away at 4-5 different hobbies by spending a set amount of time on each of them every week. That clearly hasn’t worked out for me. I just kept jumping from one task to another – without actually accomplishing or learning anything in any of those. And somehow I never learnt from them at all until a couple of months ago. The reasons for the constant distractions, I have realized, are irrelevant. I just need to find a way to get something done.
So I have decided to change my general approach to how I spend my time and efforts. More specifically, I have decided to limit my focus to pursuing just one single hobby at any given time. The duration I force myself to spend on a single task is also important. I am thinking 2 weeks should provide sufficient time to delve deep into anything while still giving me sufficient ability to do other tasks. If I feel passionately enough to want to keep doing it, I can always keep doing it beyond 2 weeks. But 2 weeks of honest effort is the minimum I will have to spend on any given task.
In other words, I am essentially committing myself to a ‘Project’ for the duration of at least 2 weeks. And while this ‘Project’ is being worked on, nothing else matters. Everything else can wait till after the ‘project’ is complete.
There are a few key features to this approach. Firstly, I need to define each task very clearly for that duration. It has to be something very specific and quantifiable. Secondly, it assumes that I, in fact, do spend quality time on the task in those two weeks. (So yeah, procrastination is still an issue that will need to be addressed). And finally, I will have to really convince myself that whatever task it is I have picked up is my sole focus – regardless of whatever else might yell “Squirrel!”
I have already put this approach to test successfully in the last month or so. I will be sharing the fruits of that labor hopefully soon. So this does give me optimism that I can indeed accomplish something with the time at hand.